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IMG_1504So many of us have been surprised by the Minions of Despicable fame.  They aren’t even the star character in the Universal Pictures animation movie.  In fact they are extras that have risen to stardom almost by accident.

Now, in toy stores and pictorial renditions of favorite characters, the Minions surpass the original stars of the film.  Felonious Gru was a star but his character doesn’t stick in the memory like his little Minions.  The morphing of the super villain from interstellar thief to nurturing parent is enhanced with the supporting cast of innumerable minions.

Margo, Edith and Agnes are adorable.  While I was watching the story, I wanted to adopt those three wee ones! But, there was something about those Minions.

Vector was the ideal villain of villains.  He was dastardly.  You didn’t like him.

It felt good to root against him.  When he succeeded it was disappointing.  His achievements made you cheer on Gru!  But, still there were the Minions.

Didn’t those little guys make you smile?  Their jabbering made you chuckle.  Sometimes laughing out loud was just the right response.

The first time I saw them on the screen, I they reminded me of Hostess Twinkie.  Since then I haven’t met a soul who thought the same thing.  Oh well, maybe I’m a little out of touch.

There’s something about characters who make you react the way we do.  Real humans could pay attention to a life truth here.  Too many people miss this.

In each of our lives we will influence other people.  Those people will rarely remember the words we speak or the deeds we do.  However, they will almost always remember how we made them feel.

The same wisdom comes from that ancient adage, “People don’t care how much you know until they know how much you care.”

Some of us who are educated beyond our moral capacity to implement that information productively, sometimes forget this truth.  Instead, if we impress others, embarrass others, win arguments at others’ expense, then we feel a measure of satisfaction.

The Minions are a great reminder of just making others feel good because we have come into the lives of others.  Influence people for good.  It is a great way to live.

photo credit: brucefong photography

IMG_5772It is only a scratch.  It is only a scratch? Why would anyone do that and not leave a note to fix it?

My truck is important to me.  It is very important to me.  I take very good care of it and want it to last for many years.

Yes, I even have a name for my truck.  His name is Yoda.  As its manufacturer is Toyota, hence its name is Yoda.

This is my third truck over the years that I have been on this earth as a legal driver.  It is my second Toyota.  Of all my trucks this one is my favorite.

It can take me anywhere I want to go.  This truck will move anything that I need to transport.  As far as personal rigs go this one not only is amazingly functional, it is also well designed and aesthetically sharp-looking.

My bride and I came out of the grocery store.  As we approached our steed of faithful miles, it was standing where I had left him.  But, my approach was mixed with shocking disbelief.

FullSizeRenderThere on the side of my truck was someone’s signature.  No it was not a name.  It was a long deep scratch.

The depth of the scratch was not something that I could rub out like a scuff mark.  This one was so deep that it took the paint off and gashed my door so uneven that the white paint highlighted the dark underbelly of the layers of paint.

I was not sick over the discovery.  It was just one of those, “Oh, well, what can you do?”  It is not worth the expense to report for insurance coverage.

Gently, I stoked my hand across the wound.  My head shook with disgust.  “What a waste,” I surmised.  Some people just are careless and don’t give a rip.

If someone does not care about keeping their car up then I do not judge them.  Nor do I intrude on their lives and shame their irresponsible behavior.  But, if I am victimized by someone’s misstep then at least leave a note with the pertinent information.

Do people really just assess damage for others and conclude what they need to do or not do?  Are they objective and concerned about the victim’s assessment?  Are they really happy with leaving and blowing off the episode as “no big deal”?  This is annoying but, what can a person do?

photo credit: brucefong cellphone photography

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